Falling apart

Ok so I really feel like me and Brad are completely falling apart. Its like we can spend days together and be absolutely as loving and intimant as newlyweds but the second we spend more then 2 days apart we fight over stupid stuff. I feel like when I miss him and put an effort to spend time with him he is either way busy working on something for his parents or having a guys night or just plain busy. When I finally do get time with him we get to do what he wants to do then when it comes my time to do what I wanna do it gets cut short by his mom and I have to leave. I feel like I'm the one making all the effort for us to see eachother cause i invite him over i make the plans and I do all the cute romantic and creative things for us. I just wished that when he says he misses me as much as he does he would put in an effort to come see me or just surprise me with something. I just dont know what to do anymore :'(